I get plenty at home, our sexual life is better than most. Why? Because we aren't afraid to discuss our desires and fantasies with each other. Nothing is taboo as there is no jealousy. We experiment when and how we like and bring in new facets to our sexual experiences. We have been married for 25 years, and have never slowed down. Weekly, we discover new and exciting ideas to bring into our sexual life.

I have never "cheated" on my husband, nor he on me! We are usually together when we enjoy sexual encounters with others, and if we aren't, we at least know about it. We entered the lifestyle because of the intense pleasure we found. We stay in this lifestyle because of the openness and sharing involved. Most lifestyle couples are honest with each other, and would never think of doing anything behind their partner's back.

The whole concept of this lifestyle is based on honesty and sharing. Not sharing your partner with someone else, but the sharing that happens between the attached couple. You share each other's joy, you share each other's pleasure. It's the type of sharing that brings you closer together as a couple.

My Personal Rant!

We North Americans have a strange concept of morality. We allow our children to watch the most vile and disgusting violence, yet get upset if the same children are exposed to the sight of a woman's breasts. We encourage then to play with toys that mimic warfare and destruction, but ban the concept of sex education in our schools. We teach them that sex for pleasure is evil, but explain to me why we have the worst incidences of sex-related crimes in the world. We teach them to show no tolerance to people that are "different" sexually, racially, philosophically. Our children grow up unwilling to learn about others, to learn that the differences in people are what make them special. We attack that which we don't understand and are not willing to understand. I feel pity for these people, not contempt, as I realize they must exist in life with a narrow mindedness that must be intellectually and emotionally stifling.

I bring this up as I see attacks daily on people who are willing to truly live life. I see these attacks in the media, on the streets, in the schools. I get bitter trying to justify my beliefs to those that don't want to listen or learn. I realize that their attacks are a way for them to feel superior, to give them a belief that they have a power over what they don't understand. I tell these people, "Shut up, and truly listen for once!". I am as you are in body, but open your mind so you may become my equal. You may not agree with my life or my choices, but please give me the freedom to do as I will.