First off, there are pictures of me with black men, Asian men, and native men, you just have to find them! They really are few and far between.

This is a comment/question that I receive almost daily. My problem with it is it seems to come from both blacks and whites!

I find this type of comment unsettling as I always hope society would get beyond a person's colour. I find it almost racist in that it really shouldn't matter what a person's race is. This fallacy that black men are great lovers, and Asians aren't, has to stop. Race doesn't make the lover, what's in the man does!

I understand fantasies, but why a person's race should become a fantasy is something I hope we can all get over. I have no preference as to what colour my partner should be. A person's skin colour neither turns me off, nor on! The person is what gets me excited, and if he happens to be "of colour", it doesn't really matter.

I do have some black friends in the lifestyle, along with Asian and Hispanic. This may sound simple and naive, but I just consider them friends. I really don't care about their race or colour, I just like them for them. I have met black couples that I didn't like, just as I've met many white couples who didn't do anything for me, but it had nothing to do with their colour.

I guess the main reason I don't have many pictures of my "non-white" friends, is they would not appreciate being seen by the world on my pages, and I must respect their wishes. I have many pictures that will never be seen just because they have been entrusted to me for my pleasure only.

If you're black, white, red or yellow (and everything in between), be sure that the lack of pictures of people of "race" on my pages has nothing at all to do with my sexual preferences. If we meet, and I get pictures that you allow to be published, I will gladly put them up. But until that time, I can only place what I'm allowed to place by the people involved.